Why Toddlers Need Friends Their Own Age

Humans are social animals. For many thousands ofThe second reason for getting your toddler involved in
years, as we lived and worked in tribal societies, everyplaygroups is that being around other young children
toddler had ample opportunity to be social with thecreates confidence and sense of security while in a
people around him. Learning and playing went hand ingroup. Your child will not only interact personally with
hand and all young children participated in tribal eventsthe other children, but will have the opportunity to make
and group socializing. It is only in the modern world,observations of the activity that surrounds them.
when we have lost the 'village' and fractured intoWatching other kids playing or learning can give your
single-family units that our children do not get adequatechild ideas - how to solve problems, how to make
socialization. In today's busy world we use playgroups,friends, share etc. This type of socializing is critical for
playdates and kid's activities to give our toddlers get adevelopment, but perhaps more importantly, it is fun for
chance to learn interaction and social manners andyour child. Studies have proven that children who are
behaviors.regularly exposed to kid's activities, events or
There are two key reasons for getting your toddlerplaydates are better adjusted and better behaved
involved in playgroups. The first is to expose them tooverall.
other young children. When children are playingIf you want your toddler to be more social, playgroups,
together in a group, they are automatically andplaydates and events where other young children are
sub-consciously learning from each other. Kid'spresent are a good way to accomplish it. Learning to
activities, special events and playdates are allplay well with others is a critical part of human
opportunities for socializing with kids from a variety ofdevelopment and the skills gained while playing and
backgrounds and cultural situations. Through sociallearning will pay great dividends later in life. As adults
interaction your child will learn how to relate andwe sometimes look at socializing as something
effectively 'deal' with children of their own age. Toofrivolous - something for our spare time. For toddlers,
often our children have social interaction only withbeing involved in kid's activities and spending regular
adults until they must go to school at which time thetime with children of a similar age is a critical part of
culture shock is immense.development.