Toddler Preschool - Expectations and Abilities

The single most important thing to remember if youintervene or change the situation if it appears too
have a toddler preschool setting is that Play is neverdifficult and exceeds their abilities.
frivolous. It is THE most effective way a toddler learns;6. Toddlers can't see things or understand things "from
it is essential. The best part is that PLAY can beanother person's point of view". They are busy
enhanced. This is where you, the preschool teacher,establishing their autonomy.
provide the opportunities to turn play into the bestKeep these in mind when you are planning your
learning environment possible.activities and your days with your two year olds will
Expectationsflow and be rewarding for them and for you.
The term, toddler, covers a wide age range and abilityAbilities
range. I define toddler as between 18 and 30 monthsToddlers need to have playmates around. Even
of age. My time with toddlers is governed by thethough they may not play with another person at this
following facts:age, they are always paying attention to what is going
1. Hands-on experiences are the best and why I preferon around them and what their peers are doing. They
play to "worksheets".are learning how to be independent. They are learning
2. Toddlers have emotions similar to adult emotions butthat they have power to do things or not do things.
their thought processes are quite different. Meet themAllow them to experience this and the consequences
on their level.of their actions. **Note: this helps to explain why
3. Toddlers emotions are close to the surface. ISHARING is often difficult. If they are establishing their
compare them to a light switch--one minute happy andown sense of self it is hard for them to share with
the next sad. They can go from calm to agitated inanother. This is a gradual process and improves closer
seconds.to three years of age or older.
4. Patience is the most important word I use toThese are all tips that help me with the toddler age.
describe how to deal with toddlers. Stay calm and helpRemembering that they may not be able to play with
them to learn of their own abilities to deal with theirbut play next to, that they may not be able to share at
feelings.this time but can take guidance on social interaction
5. Toddlers will play-with us or without us. It is our roleare concepts that will make your toddler preschool
to enhance the play when it is supportive and toplanning successful.