Toddler Biting and Other Aggressive Behavior - Why it Happens and What to Do About It

Toddler biting, kicking, hair pulling and other anti-socialresponds to their favorite toy being picked up by hitting
behaviors are scary the first time you witness them,the other child is not being malicious.
whether or not your child is on the receiving end.Toddlerhood is a time when ambition outstrips ability.
This article explains what is going through yourTrying to climb onto a chair that is too high, or pull a
toddler's mind when he or she hurts you or anothercat's tail - the list is endless. Frustration is the result, and
child, and what you can do about it.biting and so on is sometimes the consequence of that
Why Toddlers Become Aggressivefrustration.
Young children can't express themselves properlyWhat To Do About This Aggressive Behavior
because of their limited language. Added to this is aPrevent it if possible. Closely monitor your child if
distinct lack of self-awareness. This combination cananti-social behavior is becoming a habit. You may have
be explosive - more often than not your toddler doesto act like a United Nations peace keeper between
not know why he is upset - what's worse, he can'twarring toddlers, or even avoid danger zones like
say that he is angry.playgroup for a while.
If you've ever made an unkind remark and instantlyRemember though that prevention is not always
regretted it, imagine that a toddler who sinks her teethpossible - far from it.
into another's arm is doing the same thing, but withoutUnderstanding why toddlers bite does not mean we
words. Or for that matter regret - that is way over hershould accept it. You must always respond and take
head.these incidents seriously.
Often a kick or hair pulling happens on the spur of theTime out is an effective tactic in the fight against
moment - these incidents are not premeditated at thisfighting. This is where you isolate the toddler for a
age.short time, based on the idea that ignoring young
Moreover, under the age of 2 the concept of right andchildren is the most powerful way to curb undesirable
wrong is utterly meaningless. So an 18-month-old whobehavior.