The Day Care Benefit

You've heard all the nasty rumors about day care.also have the opportunity to learn some of the basics
Too many kids and too few caregivers. Lots ofsuch as the alphabet and numbers, and he's always
sneezing and wheezing. That little guy who's alwaysincreasing his vocabulary. This pre-preschool learning
grabbing your child's toy. Everyone's got a story. Butenvironment gives your child an understanding of what
you have to get back to work and you have nowill be expected of him once he enters kindergarten.
choice. What's a good parent to do?He learns to sit and listen, and is able to accept the
Let's concentrate on the positive. There are plenty ofinformation that will be thrust upon him in school. He
benefits to sending your child to day care. If youlearns the value of teamwork and to respect the
consider some of these benefits, it will help you comeopinions and emotions of others. Entering school for
to terms with your own decision, whether you have athe first time is challenging for all children, but those
choice or not. Once you understand, you'll feel you'rewho have been in day care benefit by already having
helping your child grow into a well rounded, happy childexposure to a classroom-like environment.
instead of feeling guilty about sticking him in day care.Once your daughter enters school, day care can help
Babies need interaction with other children. It's neverwith homework. Some day care facilities even offer
too early to start engaging your son in activities withafter-school extracurricular activities like scout
other children, whether his own age, toddlers or oldermeetings, dance class, martial arts and on-site
children. Learning to interact with other kids preparesgymnastics instruction. Once she is in school her
your son for his first real school experience. Day carehorizons begin to broaden.
is a gentler environment, there are less rules and moreAs you can see, there are many benefits to placing
flexibility than strict teachers may impose in school.your child in a licensed, qualified day care situation. And
Children benefit from day care by learning self-control,remember that even though your child is away from
how to get along with others, and how to share. Theyyou for a portion of his day, it is really the parents that
begin to learn all about friendship. Without day care,make the most difference in his life.
your daughter only knows you; you are her wholeWhen he gets home from day care after spending a
world. How scary would it be to get into school at agelong day away from you, he will be bursting to tell you
four or five and find out that Mom isn't there with her?all about his day. Ask him questions about his friends,
Children benefit from day care by expanding theirhis teachers, his subjects. He will share his day with
world to include people other than their parents.you no matter what his age is, and getting him to
Separation anxiety will be lessened (or not an issue atvividly describe his day is exciting to a child especially if
all) when your child enters school if she's been in dayyou show interest. Of course you're interested, aren't
care. She's already used to being away from you foryou? After all, this child, a mini version of yourself, is
some time during the day. She's learned how to maketaking on the world one day at a time, and the choices
new friends and can be content without your undividedand desires he has will be a direct reflection of you.
attention. The transition from home to school is far lessMake the most of that opportunity while you can -
difficult for those who've experienced day care.children are only children once.
In addition to learning socialization skills, your son may