Stay at Home Dads 7 Important Steps For Success

Know Your Cartoons: Let's face it - your child WILL"Just you wait until we get home". To him or her that
watch TV, and that's all right as long as it's not toomay mean a special treat and when you DO get
much and the quality is good - and appropriate forhome and mete out their punishment, they will not
your child's age! Check your local TV listings on-lineknow what is going on, I promise you!
and do a little research into what shows areLove: Don't be afraid to show your children that you
recommended for each age group. Watch the showslove them. Hugs and kisses are what young children
with your child, at least until you are sure that theunderstand ans know as love. They don't know - or
program is suitable. Who know, you may learn to lovecare - about the sacrifices you and your wife are
Sponge Bob Square Pants!making to be able to have you be a stay at home
Playgroups: children need time with their peers in orderDad. (and they shouldn't) Let your children see your
to develop good social skills. Taking them to the locallove for them and they grow because of it.
park is a great place for them to meet other childrenLanguage: Women are traditionally more verbal than
their own age. You might also benefit from meetingmen. It's partly because of this that children learn their
other parents. See if any of them are interested inlanguage skills so well. The more Mom talks to her
setting up a playgroup. It really doesn't have to bechildren during the day - the better the kids learn to
much - just an hour or so each week so the childrentalk. Dads - learn how to talk to your children. Don't
can get together and play and the parents can tradealways talk at their level, because then they are not
tips and tricks how how to deal with young children'slearning new words and skills. While I'm not saying to
issues. Your child will quickly learn how to share andtalk like the encyclopedia, I am saying to speak with
have fun in a playgroup setting. They will have friends!them on a level they can understand - yet at the
Laundry: Yep, this one is important - but easy. Justsame time on a level that is constantly challenging
remember, one pile for all whites, one for pastels orthem to improve their language skills. A great way to
light mixed colors, one for darks and if you havehelp develop a child's language skills is to read to them
anything red - wash that separately. Never, NEVERon a daily basis.
put something wool or cashmere in the washingFinances: Finances might be pretty tight for families
machine! Basically, if you follow the garment tagwith Stay at Home Dads (or Moms for that matter).
washing instruction, you won't go wrong and youYou might want to consider making some extra
should pick this skill up rather quickly.money via an on-line business. Internet marketing is a
Discipline: Children learn best from their "mistakes" ifgreat way to earn extra income while the children are
there is immediate feedback. When your childnapping or later in the evening when they are sleeping.
misbehaves, provide suitable punishment immediately ifHaving even just a little extra coming in every month
at all possible. If you wait, your child will have forgottenmight just be the way you can continue being a stay
what he did wrong in the first place and resentmentat home Dad indefinitely!
will grow. A two-year-old toddler will not understand