| The first day at crèche, childminder, playschool | | | | * Allow the child to help pack his bag and carry it. |
| or preschool is a big one for both you and your child. | | | | * When you arrive at the crèche walk your |
| It's exciting and terrifying at the same time. Here are a | | | | child in holding his hand - don't carry him. |
| few tips how best to prepare both of you for the big | | | | * Most crèches will have a settling in period |
| day and help make that transition a smooth one. | | | | (depending on your child it could be a few days or |
| * Start gently preparing your child in advance | | | | longer) where the child will stay for gradually longer |
| mentioning what a great adventure crèche will | | | | periods of time. The first day you will probably stay in |
| be with lots of friends and games. Keep it low key | | | | the room, allowing your child to do his own thing but |
| though; don't overdo it as this could overwhelm your | | | | remaining in sight. Gauge his reactions stepping out of |
| child. | | | | the room explaining that you are making a phone call |
| * Try to foster independence in the weeks preceding | | | | and are just in the hall. Allow the staff to distract your |
| crèche with visits to friends, washing own | | | | child and observe from a distance (obviously, don't let |
| hands etc | | | | him see you). |
| * Be sure and visit the crèche with your child a | | | | * When the time comes for you to sit in the car or go |
| couple of times before starting allowing him to absorb | | | | for a coffee say 'bye, mum will see you later' positively |
| the environment in your company | | | | with a quick kiss and leave the room. If your child cries |
| * Make sure you have everything packed for the day | | | | don't look back - remember, once you are out of sight |
| e.g. snacks, change of clothes, comfort toys etc | | | | the child will stop crying shortly and will be distracted |
| * Label everything | | | | by play and activities. |
| * Be sure and have monies paid and forms completed | | | | * It is very important to establish this drop off routine |
| before the big day so you are not distracted by these | | | | from day one. Firm and consistent is key with children. |
| tasks. | | | | * Finally, remember your crèche do this all the |
| * Ensure you have lots of time to get ready the | | | | time. They 'know the drill' so listen to their advice. They'll |
| morning of the 'big day' with a good breakfast and | | | | call you if they have any concerns so try not to worry. |
| some chat about the great adventure ahead. | | | | Now, enjoy your cup of coffee in peace!!! |