| In preschool, a teacher's primary role is to teach. Of | | | | aren't potty trained aren't even allowed to enroll. While |
| course she will love, nurture, serve as a role model, | | | | in our school teachers willingly change children out of |
| and even change diapers for her charges, but first and | | | | love and caring, the teacher's job is to teach, not |
| foremost her goal is to teach. At times, parents lose | | | | change diapers. Potty training can be very difficult, and |
| sight of this. | | | | this teacher was willing to help Colleen's parents with |
| At three years old, Colleen's parents hadn't started | | | | the task. Her father should have not only appreciated |
| potty training her yet. Every day she would move her | | | | her desire to help out, but also her willingness to |
| bowels at one o'clock, and you could almost set your | | | | change his daughter's soiled diapers so many times. |
| watch to it. The girl was very regular. Her teacher | | | | Face it, a three year old's bowel movement is very |
| spoke with her father, and suggested that they work | | | | different than that of an infant. It is not a pleasant job |
| together to begin to toilet train Colleen. | | | | for anyone. |
| Her father became instantly offended and told the | | | | Some parents have personal reasons for waiting to |
| teacher that he would train his daughter when he | | | | potty train their children until they are older, even four |
| believed it was time and it was not her place to make | | | | or five years old. They believe that if they wait until |
| that suggestion. He went on to say that changing his | | | | their child is completely ready on his own, it will be a far |
| daughter's diaper was the teacher's job and she | | | | easier process. If that is how you feel, at least say |
| shouldn't complain about doing her job. | | | | thank you to the teacher who needs to clean and |
| This was a disheartening conversation. To begin with, | | | | change your child while she is at school. |
| changing diapers is not in the teacher's job description | | | | And please don't lose sight of the teacher's primary |
| for a three year old. In many schools, children who | | | | responsibility, which is teaching. |